kded:ERROR communication problem ,probably crashed bt3 vista

Hi everyone,
I GOT A NEW HP LAPTOP DV51080EL...
ACTUALLY IT IS THE BEST COMPUTER ON SALE...
BUT IT RUNNING WINDOWS VISTA HOME PREMIUM.
I M NOT A MOSTER WITH LINUX BUT I CAN DO MOST OF THINGS.
SO DECIDED TO INSTALL BACKTRACK 3 ON MY NEW MACHINE.

after 4 days work no stop ...
i m exousted...

1) boot bt3 live cd and save to the hard disk...NOTHING
http://wiki.remote-exploit.org/index.php/Transcript_of_movie

2) boot bt3 USB
http://n00bhacker.blogspot.com/2008/01/installing-backtrack-on-usb-drive.html
in the end it looks working fine from vista.
after boot from USB alwell.

i run the command ...xconf... and it saids:

Trying to autoconfigure Xwindow system, please wait...
creating /etc/X11/xorg.conf...
all done.Run startx now.
if you get a black .....

Until now it looks FINE.. or NOT?

i run the command ...startx... and i get:

kded:ERROR communication problem ,probably crashed

Did i do something wrong?
i try everything on web with this error but nothing
http://www.linuxforums.org/forum/debian-linux-help/55705-startx-problems.html

Plese someone HELP PLEASE,HELP PLEASE,HELP PLEASE,HELP PLEASE

i post an image to help you understand....

I M EVEN ABLE TO DONATE SOME MONEY TO SOLVE MY PROBLEM.
THANK EVERYONE